Noun: a moment of sudden realization, enlightenment, or inspiration.
Recent observations have me recognizing the pressure put on the male sex today. Expectations while single, more often than not, have the man making all the first moves. Approach her, buy her a drink, ask for her number, message her within a reasonable time period, ask her out on a date, pay the bill, text her you had a good time, etc.. When in reality, females are all about equality and being strong, independent and blah blah blah; yet we still require you to hold the door open for us? Contradictive, I know.